Build a life that actually feels like yours.

Do others see you as reliable, responsible, caring, and successful, but something still feels off? I work with many adults and teens who have become experts at meeting everyone else’s needs—but strangers to their own.

Therapy for Individuals, Couples, and Teens

I offer in-person psychotherapy sessions in Los Feliz and Atwater Village in Los Angeles and virtual therapy for clients anywhere in the state of California.

Feeling stuck and not sure why?

In many ways, our work together can be boiled down to three simple steps:

Awareness.

Insight.

Inspiration.

In our work together, we begin by developing greater awareness of what’s happening inside your heart and mind. From that awareness, deeper insight begins to emerge: about the patterns you’ve developed, the beliefs you hold about yourself, and the ways you’ve learned to navigate relationships. And with that understanding comes something powerful: the inspiration and self-trust to pursue what you want for your life, not just what others expect of you.

My approach is informed by attachment theory and parts-based work. Many of the struggles people bring to therapy like self-criticism, conflict in relationships or difficulty trusting themselves are often rooted in patterns of connection learned earlier in life. Therapy gives us space to notice those patterns with curiosity and compassion, and to begin experimenting with new ways of relating to yourself and others.

My background in writing and storytelling shapes how I think about this work. Before becoming a therapist, I spent years working with Mortified, a storytelling project built around people sharing their teenage diaries on stage. Reading thousands of those diaries gave me a front-row seat to the fears, identities, and survival strategies we develop early in life and how those patterns often continue shaping us as adults.

At times, therapy may feel uncomfortable, challenging or painful, but it can also be a place of creativity, collaboration, and spontaneity where a more authentic version of you begins to take shape.

I work primarily with men, teens, couples, creatives, parents, and LGBTQ+ individuals.

Who I Work With

I work with individuals and couples navigating relationships, identity, life transitions, and loss.

  • Many of the adults I work with are thoughtful, capable people whose lives look good on paper but who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected underneath it all. They may find themselves repeating the same patterns in relationships, carrying a harsh inner critic, or feeling pulled between their own needs and the expectations of others.

    My work is informed by attachment theory and parts-based approaches. Often the patterns people struggle with today developed earlier in life as ways of maintaining connection, gaining approval, or protecting themselves emotionally. In therapy we begin to notice these patterns and the different “parts” of you that developed to manage them, whether that’s the inner critic, the people-pleaser, or the part of you that shuts down when things feel overwhelming.

    Part of our work together is learning to relate to those patterns with curiosity rather than judgment, making space for the emotions beneath them, and experimenting with new ways of responding to yourself and others. Over time, many people find that as they better understand themselves, they develop greater self-trust and a clearer sense of what they actually want for their lives.

  • Being a teenager today comes with a unique set of pressures—social dynamics, academic expectations, identity development, pressure to specialize early in sports or the arts, and the constant presence of comparison through social media and peer culture. Many teens feel the weight of those expectations deeply, and feelings like shame, anxiety, or self-doubt can become overwhelming.

    I work to create an environment where teens feel respected, understood, and not talked down to. Sometimes that means helping them put words to experiences that may feel confusing or intense, broadening their perspective on the pressures and expectations they’re navigating.

    By the teenage years, many young people have already developed a strong sense of the roles they play in order to feel valued—whether that’s the achiever, the responsible one, the easygoing one, or something else entirely. Those roles often contain real strengths, but they can also become limiting over time. Part of our work together is helping teens recognize those patterns, understand the emotions beneath them, and begin listening more closely to their own needs and instincts.

    Over time, therapy can help teens feel less alone in what they’re going through and more confident navigating the growing pains of adolescence.

  • Many couples come to therapy feeling stuck in the same conversations or conflicts over and over again. One partner may feel unheard or criticized, while the other feels misunderstood or shut down. Over time these patterns can create distance, leaving both people feeling frustrated, lonely, or unsure how to reconnect. It’s surprising how easy it is to feel alone or unseen, even in a relationship where love is very much present.

    My work with couples is grounded in attachment theory. Often when conflict escalates, it’s because something deeper has been triggered. A fear of rejection. A fear of not being valued. The sense that the relationship itself might be slipping away. In those moments, people tend to fall into familiar roles or reactions that protect them emotionally but also make it harder to feel understood.

    In our work together, we slow those moments down and begin to understand what’s happening for each partner beneath the surface. As couples start to recognize these patterns and the emotions driving them, it becomes easier to respond to each other with greater clarity, empathy, and connection.

  • Loss takes many forms. The death of someone close to you. The end of a relationship. The realization that something important in your life has changed. Grief rarely moves in a straight line. It can be messy and unpredictable, showing up as waves of sadness, anger, confusion, or even moments where you find yourself reacting more strongly to people or situations than you normally would. At times you may withdraw from others, struggle to find meaning in things that once mattered, or feel the ache of losing someone who understood you in a way few people ever did.

    In our work together, therapy becomes a space to make room for the full range of what you may be experiencing. Sometimes that means putting words to emotions that feel difficult to name. Other times it means exploring how grief reshapes your identity, relationships, and the story you tell about your life. And other times, it could mean laughing in an inappropriate moment. For some people, loss also opens questions about meaning, purpose, or spirituality that can be important to explore.

    I bring both professional training and personal experience to this work, having experienced the loss of both parents and having navigated grief at different stages of life myself. While every person’s experience of loss is unique, that perspective has deepened my appreciation for how complex and deeply personal the grieving process can be.

    Over time, many people find that while grief never fully disappears, it can become something they learn to carry differently, making space again for connection, meaning, and moments of life continuing forward.

Get in touch

To explore what working together would be like, let’s set up a free 15-minute consultation call.

You can send a message using the form or email me directly at neilkatchertherapy@gmail.com to set something up.

I can also be reached at 626.385.8106.

Any information you send will be kept confidential.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

What issues to help clients with?

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I work primarily with adults, teens (male), parents, LGBTQ+ individuals and couples navigating life transitions, career & relationship stress, and loss.


Do you offer in-person and online therapy?

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Yes. I offer both online/virtual therapy for clients located in the state of California as well as in-person sessions at my office spaces in Los Feliz and Atwater Village in Los Angeles.


How much does therapy cost? And do you take insurance?

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I work on a private-pay basis; sessions are $150 per session for individuals and $175 for couples. I do not accept insurance, but can provide a superbill so you can submit for out-of-network benefits, if applicable.


How do I know if therapy with you is a good fit?

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Finding the right therapist matters. I offer a free 15-minute consultation so we can talk about what’s bringing you in and see if working together feels right.